How to Avoid Romance Scams

Romance scams target every kind of dating platform. Knowing the patterns is the most effective protection.

Common red flags

Requests for money, gift cards or crypto. Sudden tragedies that require urgent help. Requests to move off-platform very quickly. Refusal to use voice or video. Mismatched details across the conversation.

What to do

Never send money or financial details. Block and report inside the platform. If you believe you have been scammed, report to Action Fraud (or Police Scotland in Scotland).

Frequently Asked Questions

Are scams common on Discreet Affairs?

Verification, moderation and reporting reduce risk significantly, but no platform can guarantee zero scams. Stay alert.

How do I report a suspected scam?

Use the in-app report tool. Reports are reviewed by our UK moderation team.

Should I share financial information?

Never share bank, card or crypto information with another member.

Where do I go for further help?

Action Fraud (England, Wales, NI) or Police Scotland.

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