The Safest Way to Use a Dating Site

Safety on a dating site comes down to a small number of habits. Build them once and use them on every platform you join.

Account and device security

Use a unique password for every dating account. Turn on two-factor authentication. Lock your phone with a PIN or biometric and disable lock-screen previews for the apps you use to chat.

Meeting safely

Voice or video first. Meet in a neutral venue. Arrive separately and use your own transport. Trust your instincts and leave at any time without apology.

Frequently Asked Questions

Should I tell someone where I am going?

Yes, where you can do so privately — share your live location with a trusted friend.

How do I avoid scams?

Never send money or financial details. See our anti-scam policy for the full list of red flags.

Are video calls safe?

Yes, used carefully. Use the in-app voice or video where available rather than sharing personal numbers early.

What if I feel unsafe?

Block, report and use Quick Hide. Our UK moderation team reviews every report.

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