Member Safety

Member safety is the goal that every other policy and feature serves. This page brings the full picture together.

Online safety

Encrypted messaging, default-on photo privacy, blocking, reporting, anti-scam controls and active moderation.

Offline safety

We provide guidance on meeting safely from a private dating platform, including neutral venues, transport and what to share with a trusted contact.

Frequently Asked Questions

Where do I start?

Read our privacy-first dating, anti-scam and meeting safely guides — linked below.

Can I get personal advice?

Our support team can offer general guidance and signpost UK services. We are not a substitute for professional support.

Is there a panic button?

Quick Hide is the in-app equivalent. In real-world emergencies, always contact 999.

Where do I report a concern?

Use the in-app report tool or our support page.

Canonical: https://discreetaffairs.uk/safety/member-safety